- What is tantric sex?
- Four keys to deep connection.
- Benefits include security, stability and connection.
When it comes to intimate relationships, it could be said that anything goes, as long as both paties are in agreement.
After a while, any relationship can fall into a rut.
Among the many options for shaking things up in the bedroom, one stands out above all others.
Tantric sex is «a type of sex that goes far beyond the usual, the traditional.»
What is tantric sex?
In simple terms, tantric sex «is a union between two people» using sex as meditation.
It is also used as a space to enter into each other — «to get to know each other, merge, and elevate sexual energy.»
According to Men’s Health, unlike traditional sex, tantric sex uses the entire body, especially the heart.
Additionally, it employs four keys, which are breath, sound, presence and spontaneous movement. So what are you waiting for?
What are the four keys to tantric sex?
The four tantric keys make the energy that comes from the genitals spread throughout the body.
This gives you more energy to give more love and it will deepen your communication with your partner.
The goal is for both bodies to surrender to each other, and both hearts to merge. It takes effort, but we assure you it’s possible.
All you have to do is practice the four tantric keys: breath, sound, presence and spontaneous movement.
How do you have tantric sex?
According to Men’s Health, it’s advisable to attend a workshop to learn more about how to practice tantric sex.
In addition to learning how to use the four keys, you will learn how to eliminate the usual goals when having sex: friction, ejaculation and orgasm.
In these courses, participants are taught to cultivate slowness, breathing and, above all, learning to take their time.
It’s important to note that these courses don’t involve having sex, they are purely informational.
Some benefits to consider
Sex therapist Maite Domenech, who teaches some of these courses, shared some benefits of tantric sex.
She says that her students leave her workshop «transformed.» We recommend you look for something like this in your city or even online.
It will deepen your connection with your partner and give your the security and stability to open your heart.
«It’s like raising your relationship as a couple several octaves, not just your sexual relationship. It maximizes your relationship to the fullest,» she said.
Tantric sex positions
Finally, we don’t want to miss the opportunity to share some tantric sex positions, which are different from the ‘usual’ ones.
One is the goddess, which could be compared to the cowgirl, but takes it a step further.
There’s also the swing, open clamp, the snake trap, the tiger and Yab Yum, the tantric embrace.
Finally, there are the snake hug and the happiness of the third eye. It is very important to maintain eye contact as much as possible.